Friday, May 24, 2013

Photo Friday Blog Hop #38



Photo Friday Blog Hop

 

Welcome! Each Friday we share a photo that inspires us, is beautiful, delectable or otherwise interesting, usually snapped right out of our own lives. Because we love photography, sharing visually and spreading the linky-love, Photo Friday includes a blog link-up. Each week we'll post one of our own photos with an invitation to link-up your own. It's okay if your photo accompanies a regular post - in other words, anything goes (please just read the guidelines below.)






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Please Note: This will be our last Photo Friday in this format, we'll be joining the Aloha Friday Blog Hop starting in June- please check us out over there! More info to come for those interested.
 
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Thursday, May 23, 2013

Mommy Moment--Military Moms


Prayer of a Military Mom

With Memorial Day approaching I would like to take a moment to properly thank some very unsung heroes, Military Moms.  In my book you are every bit as strong, courageous, brave and determined as the Soldiers you have raised.  It's not easy sending your babies off into the unknown, but you are there to support and cheer them on.

You are always there with care packages and words of comfort when it's needed.  You welcome them home with loving arms and relief in your heart.  Every phone call or Skype you receive from them leaves you with a feeling of warmth and gratitude.  As Grandmas you are often called upon to raise your children's babies while they are away. 

You might be raising children while your husbands are deployed.  When your kids are afraid you must be there to comfort and calm them, even though inside you are just as scared.  You have to be both mom and dad and you try so hard to keep things normal and happy.  This is no easy task and you too deserve a medal of honor for your hard work.  

Some of you might be wondering how you ended up with children who are so selfless and willing to sacrifice so much, just look in the mirror and there's your answer.  So Thank You Moms for always being there.  No body ever said being a mom was easy and Military Moms definitely have added responsibilities.



Thank You!


Seana
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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Prayers for Ok

As natural disaster strikes the mid-west, specifically Oklahoma, we hold the people there, and all of those affected, in our hearts and offer prayers.


If you'd like to help, but aren't sure how, this list from Blogher, has many options from big to small, from diapers to donations, from food to therapy. And in case no one else says it, thank you for  your help.


The Ladies Holiday Team
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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

BBB: Banana Blueberry Bread with Oat Streusel Topping




This post is taken from the depths of of my blogging drafts, and as you may know, my diet is now sugar and gluten free. However, I do recall this bread being so tasty, I didn't want to keep it from those of you without dietary restrictions.

Bake it up and enjoy!

Back when I had more bananas than I knew what to do with I made Gone Bananas Monkey Bread but that recipe didn't use up the rapidly ripening bunches that were sitting on my counter, so after we'd had our fill of smoothies, banana soft-serve, bananas in our cereal, bananas fresh out of their peels and the aformentioned bread, I ventured into the kitchen to put a twist on the classic banana bread. I wanted something reasonably healthy or health-mindedly wholesome and with yogurt, spelt oats and of course fruit this is a nod in that direction.





Blueberry Banana Bread with Oat Streusel

by Deirdre
Prep Time: 10 minutes
Cook Time: 1 hour 20 minutes














Ingredients (1 loaf)
  • Bread:
  • 4 Ripe Bananas
  • 1/2 cup plain yogurt (vanilla is okay, but beware of the added sugar)
  • 1 tsp vanilla (I have a heavy hand with this one so you can be generous)
  • 1/3 cup oil (walnut is great!)
  • 1/2 cup brown sugar
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 tsp baking soda
  • 3 measures of egg replacer (Ener-G or flax egg)
  • 1 cup all purpose flour
  • 1 cup spelt
  • 1 cup blueberries
  • Streusel
  • 2 tbsp oil
  • 1/3 cup sugar
  • 1/2 cup flour
  • 1/2 oats
  • 1/4 tsp cinnamon

Instructions
I'm a single bowl kinda gal- no sense in creating more dishes to wash...so after you preheat the oven to 350 degrees and grease or spray a loaf pan...

1. Mash your bananas in a large bowl

2. Add your liquid ingredients and the sugar. Mix well

3. Add the salt and baking soda. Mix well

4. Add flours. Mix well scraping down the sides of the bowl.

5. Carefully fold in blueberries

6. Place mixture in pan

7. To prepare streusel topping, mix everything in the bowl...I am all about effeciency and rule breaking and won't turn my nose up if you use the very same bowl...maybe just give it a rinse first.

8. The streusel is on the oily side, but using your hands spread it on top of the batter-nice and lumpy like.

9. Cover with foil for the first hour of baking then take it off for the last 20 minutes or until a toothpick or knife inserted in the center comes out clean. This seems like a long time, but the scent of bananas and blueberries is so worth it!



It was moist, smelled terrific and the kids were fascinated by how the blueberries settled toward the bottom when sliced. I'll add it was so good there were only crumbs left by the next morning.
Bon Appetit,
Deirdre
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Monday, May 20, 2013

In the Mix Monday- Coming in from the Rain- addressing self-image






As I understand it, self-image is the mental picture we have of ourselves, in terms of our physical appearance and the traits and characteristics that define who we are. It comes with a lot of terms we use to describe who we are both inside and outside, pretty, ugly, confident, shy, hard-working, lazy, valuable, and worthless. I could go on… A positive self-image is important because it in part determines how we respond to the people and events in our lives.

Self-image develops mostly when we are children and is influenced by the adults in our lives: parents, teachers, family and friends. When negative associations are made self-image can get warped--- sounds familiar. Now as an adult I find myself hefting around a lot of falsehoods about who I am. Not even who I was because as a kid, the various ideas I adopted weren’t even true, they were either my own misconceptions or those of the adults in my life foisted upon me. Knowing that, there is nonetheless a lot of clarifying to do.

I find that the time leading up to my ladies holiday offers me the sometimes unwanted work of addressing this issue. Unwanted, because it is challenging and work, because it feels toilsome. I have to witness some pretty wild thoughts and behaviors within myself that disconnect me from what I know to be true and the person I know I am. But the task is in the witnessing, observing, forgiving those in my life who didn’t meet my current standards of truth telling and then telling myself the truth. At this point, I’m really the only one who can do it. And I owe it to myself and my children who I am not only a role-model for, but want them to develop positive a positive self-image so they don’t have to do the work I am currently doing. The process is like this: over the years, layers of untruths concealed the deepest truth of who I am. I recognized that something didn’t quite feel right and took a risk to step out into the rain where I have had to contend with tempestuous emotions, but then the gift is that they are washed away and my true self is revealed.

What I’ve found helpful in repairing my self-image:

·         Accept myself and my abilities and not compare myself to others.

·         Identify what specific distortions about my self-image came from my childhood; treat them as something from the past. Acknowledge my life in the present and let go of the emotions attached to what happened long ago.

·         Put myself in situations where I laugh and smile and tell myself that I love who I am, “I love me.”

·         Surround myself with people who have an overall positive attitude and who are supportive.

·         Use affirmations

·         Remember this is a process and be gentle and kind to myself.
 




For years I believed, on a subconscious level several things about myself that simply weren’t accurate and I’ve decided to come in from the rain, wipe the negativity from my brow and warm myself by the light of truth. The ideas that I believed about myself that I used as excuses for not finishing tasks or failures were namely that I was inadequate, dull and undeserving. What I know now is that I am an innately good person, I am worthy of kindness and beauty. What makes this true is that my thoughts, words and deeds align with these qualities.

So now with my self-image on the mend I am better able to respond instead of react or retract from life’s events and from my emotions.
 
 


"Your life spark fires from within your innermost temple
no one can reach there but you
it is your inner sacred sanctum...
you are your own master there
only you can reach and ignite your fire!"

-Osho



In truth and beauty,
Deirdre
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Friday, May 17, 2013

Photo Friday Blog Hop # 37


Photo Friday Blog Hop



Welcome! Each Friday we share a photo that inspires us, is beautiful, delectable or otherwise interesting, usually snapped right out of our own lives. Because we love photography, sharing visually and spreading the linky-love, Photo Friday includes a blog link-up. Each week we'll post one of our own photos with an invitation to link-up your own. It's okay if your photo accompanies a regular post - in other words, anything goes (please just read the guidelines below.)




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Thursday, May 16, 2013

Mommy Moment---Out And About

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Whether you are going on a day trip or a road trip things will go more smoothly if you are prepared.  Especially if you are mom and everyone is looking to you to make sure everything the family may need is available.  Years ago when my kids were small I put together a little bag of essentials.  This bag has come in handy more times than I can count.  I have sometimes even handed it off to a friend in their moment of need. 

My pack contains a small plastic case of Bandaids, laytex free in case someone else needs one there will be no worries.  Disposable packs of antibiotic ointment or the spray version, burn cream and single dose Aspirin, Tylenol and Advil packets for adults.  For kids it can be tricky to carry around those bottles of liquid and a measuring cup so I'm actually thinking of adding some children's Tylenol Melt Aways to my pack. 

I also carry Wet Ones antibacterial wipes.  These are way more useful than the hand sanitizing gel as they actually wipe the dirt away.  You can also use them to wipe of table tops, toilet seats and to clean out cuts and scrapes before bandaging. 

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I actually prefer for my family to wash their hands rather than use the wipes if possible so I carry a small container of hand soap.  This way we can use bottled water to scrub up after being out and about, sounds funny but I feel way better knowing they have really washed up well.  Also I can't tell you how many public rest rooms we have been in that were out of soap, so gross!  The soap in those bathrooms can also be really harsh and drying, so if you have sensitive skin this is a great way to prevent issues.  I love my Dove moisturizing for sensitive skin. 

Speaking of public rest rooms I have taken to carrying disposable toilet seat covers, this came about when my kids were potty training.  I'm not talking about those cheesy paper thin covers, these are thick, over sized and will actually stick to the toilet seat so no slipping and nothing soaks through.  They are a bit more expensive but if you tend to be a germaphobe like me, soooo worth it.  I have only found them in kids prints but I don't care, still worth it.  If you have a young one that has to poop Cottonelle individual flushable wet wipes can be your best friend.

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Especially if you have little ones sitting down to eat at a public table can be stressful.  You just know they are going to put their hands and food all over it.  I found these great Table Toppers, they stick to the table and create an instant sanitary barrier for your food.

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I also carry bug bite cream, travel size sunscreen, tissue, lotion, hairbrush, floss and Q tips.  It's so great that you can find everything these days in travel sizes, so easy to carry so much in a small bag.  I also have a small Vaseline squeeze tube, if anyone needs chap stick I use the Q tips to put it on with, that way it stays clean for everyone. 

For me I always carry a few maxi pads, because you just never know when you or someone else may need one.  Especially since my daughter is getting to that age where it could happen anytime, any where.  If there is a little accident you can use your Cottonelle wipes to freshen up. 

I know this sounds like a lot to carry around but i seriously have this all in a medium sized zip up cosmetic bag with handles.  Handles because if I need to I can hang it up in the bathroom stall for easy access.  My bag is plastic so it's waterproof and see through so I can easily locate what I need and in case my husband had to carry it around it wouldn't be too embarrassing. 
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You could easily pack your essentials in a Zip Loc bag as well.  I love to carry extra Zip Locs around too, they fold up small and you can use them for tons of stuff.  I have used them for trash pick up, dirty diapers,  picking up doggie doo when they travel with us and as a waterproof case for my cell phone when needed.  Once when we were at Disney we got caught in a down poor that wouldn't let up and had to run for the bus that was a bit of a distance away.  I pulled my Zip Locs out and we were good to go, we got completely drenched but our phones were safe. 

So whether you are on a trip you have prepared for or find yourself at an impromptu play date at the park you will be well prepared for just about anything.  You can also adjust this pack to fit your needs, do you need to add a couple diapers, disposable changing cloth and some baby wipes? How about disposable bibs, or washcloths or burping cloths?  Do you need an extra binky or small toy incase you forgot one?  This way if you are just running into a store quickly or going for a stroll you don't have to carry the entire baby bag. 

I carry a large enough purse that I can just slip this inside. I have used my pack on the playground, traveling on airplanes, at the amusement parks or just in a store.  It's probably the most useful thing I own.  Once on a plane on the way home from Florida my daughter started complaining because her skin was super dry and itchy.  No problem, I just pulled out my bottle of lotion and took care of it, we enjoyed the rest of the trip home. 

Wherever you're going and whatever you are doing this Summer, you can have fun and relax knowing you are well prepared. 




Seana
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